Es importante saber hasta que punto las mentiras son mal utilizadas. Con esto quiero decir que no hay ningún ser humano que no haya mentido; ya que las mentiras es algo innato en el ser humano.
Los expertos han concluido que las mentiras son necesarias para sobrevivir, ya que decir la verdad te deja muchas veces fuera de juego. Mientras que algunos tienen la sinceridad como bandera otros la denos tan por que te dejan desnudo ante la realidad.
Bueno a lo que íbamos, las mentira es un producto de la inteligencia y del desarrollo que se dan durante las manifestaciones del crecimiento, se inicia en la niñez como producto de la fantasía y la realidad, que es normal; ya que forma parte del desarrollo del niño.
La adolescencia es una etapa muy difícil, donde las mentiras se dan con mayor frecuencia; es aquí donde el adolescente en búsqueda de la identidad y un trabajo hacia la autonomía y su independencia se va ah revelar. Por eso, muchas veces los deseos de los adolescentes no coinciden con los de sus padres y eso es terreno fértil para la aparición de la mentira.
Fundamentalmente se miente por tres causas:
- Para salvaguardar la imagen que proyectamos de nosotros mismos.
- Para eludir responsabilidades.
- Para evitar castigos
Por eso si descubren que sus hijos les mienten, no se le deben castigar ni reprenderles, al contrario averiguar por que el adolescentes les miente, quizás sea por la falta de confianza que muchas veces generan los padres.
It is important to know the extent to which lies are misused. By this I mean that no human being who has not lied because lying is something innate in humans.
Experts have concluded that lies are necessary to survive, to tell the truth often leaves you out of play. While some have the sincerity flag as others that give us leave you naked to reality.
Well what we, the lie is a product of intelligence and development that occur during the demonstrations of the growth, begins in childhood as a product of fantasy and reality, which is normal since it is part of the development the child.
Adolescence is a very difficult stage, where lies are given more frequently, this is where the adolescent search for identity and work towards autonomy and independence ah will reveal. So many times the wishes of teenagers do not match those of their parents and this is fertile ground for the emergence of lies.
Basically you lie for three reasons:
• To safeguard the image we project of ourselves.
• To avoid responsibility.
• To avoid penalties
So if you find that your children will lie, not to punish or rebuke owe, on the contrary find that the teens lie, perhaps because of the lack of trust that parents often generate.
Experts have concluded that lies are necessary to survive, to tell the truth often leaves you out of play. While some have the sincerity flag as others that give us leave you naked to reality.
Well what we, the lie is a product of intelligence and development that occur during the demonstrations of the growth, begins in childhood as a product of fantasy and reality, which is normal since it is part of the development the child.
Adolescence is a very difficult stage, where lies are given more frequently, this is where the adolescent search for identity and work towards autonomy and independence ah will reveal. So many times the wishes of teenagers do not match those of their parents and this is fertile ground for the emergence of lies.
Basically you lie for three reasons:
• To safeguard the image we project of ourselves.
• To avoid responsibility.
• To avoid penalties
So if you find that your children will lie, not to punish or rebuke owe, on the contrary find that the teens lie, perhaps because of the lack of trust that parents often generate.
